This could be a massive post full of anecdotes with everything I know and have learned, but I’ve realized over the years that game really boils down to three simple things, and everything else is nerdy min-maxing.
- Pass her shit tests
- Don’t show weakness
- Dominate other men
These three things require that you have confidence, but not all men with confidence do these things, and in fact these three things are exactly what the blue pill wants you most vehemently not to do. It wants you to take shit from women, share your deepest weaknesses with them, and restrain your toxic masculinity. And thus it ensures that you won’t get laid, won’t have normal relations with women, are unable to form a family. It really doesn’t matter how well you dress, how handsome you are, or buff, or charming, or tall, or rich, or funny, or charismatic. You can tick all of those boxes and do terribly with women, and I know men who do, because all of those things are 10% of courtship and the trinity of game as described above is 90%.
For 1, well, you should already know what a shit test is and how to pass it. In the words of the pimp, women give you shit to find out if you are the shit. So don’t take her shit, unless passing the shit test entails doing something illegal or screwing over your bros. I’m not risking my neck or my friends for a ho. Some people have misconceptions that good girls won’t shit test you and bad girls will. All girls will shit test you. “Good girls” just do it less frequently, less cuntily, and are satisfied of your status for longer once you pass them. Bad girls will give you constant, escalating shit tests throughout your relationship out of the hypergamous insecurity that you’re not man enough, and since these shit tests will inevitably escalate to the point where beating and rape are required to pass them, these girls will only end up sticking with really mean motherfuckers. And you can tell that these are shit tests because the girl herself will never make a criminal complaint on her “abusive” man despite how brutal his pimp hand, (up to and including the murder of her children from a previous man, news stories that are inexplicably common) though witnesses might, so I cannot recommend doing what is needed to handle this type of woman. I’ve dated a few girls like this and always bowed out before I did something to incriminate myself.
For 2, you should never share your insecurities and weaknesses with your woman. That sounds fucking harsh, but this kind of emotional support is just not what women are for. Your woman will kiss the wounds of your bravery but not of your cowardice. If I crash my literbike while illegally streetracing and get disfigured, or get gutted in a knife fight in a dingy bar, (not to imply that the proprietor of this blog has ever done anything illegal) my woman will stay and nurse me back to health. If I get mugged, and surrender to the robber in front of my woman, she will cuckold me with someone very much like the mugger and expect me to raise his kids as my own. If you’re stressed out or worried about something, and want to share your feelings, that’s what your bros and your family are for. If you don’t have any, I guess there’s always moe anime to cheer you up. Or make art. Women love a “tortured soul” through a plausibly deniable layer of separation. I know guys who can’t help themselves on this point, they think that true love involves a woman nursing a man’s insecurities, and as a result they get burned over and over. Sometimes girls I was sleeping with would ask me why I never talk about my feelings and my problems with them, and I give them a transparently fake answer like “I don’t have feelings”, which joke answer completely placates her after token protest because deep down, it’s the answer she wants to hear. I know a man who tells women that men have three emotions: hungry, happy, and horny, and if he’s not happy, he needs one of the other two taken care of, you know what to do darling.
For 3, this also includes the negative that you don’t act submissive to other men in front of her. But in your male hierarchy, you’re just statistically unlikely to be on top, so wat do? Well, society used to solve this problem through guest laws, that every man was king under his own roof, so his wife would see him as dominant more often than not. If, hypothetically, I’m in a biker gang, and I’m not top dog in the gang, my biker bros give me respect as a host and follow my rules when they come over to my place and meet my woman, and everything we do that requires I follow another man’s orders happens far away from my woman’s eyes. But we don’t have many male societies with unspoken rules like this, so if you’re trying to attract a woman, the easiest way involves dominating other men in front of her during courtship. This is why Mystery could get laid despite being a goofy nerd; he was very good at AMOGing other men in nightclubs and making them look like idiots, and in fact he intentionally dressed in a way to get verbal sparring from other men and shit tests from women and then outperform them. If you’re de facto the AMOG, getting laid is very easy, but you won’t always be in this scenario and will thus have to AMOG other men, or at the very worst act and imply that you can easily dominate other men.
Is it hard to really internalize this stuff? Sure. But this is all the advice you need. If you want to get better with women, practice these three instead of openers or jokes or anything like that. My online identity isn’t predicated on teaching you how to get laid, so I can give you the superconcentrated dose and wash my hands of it rather than drip feed you little techniques and optimizations to keep the blog going. So this is the first and last lesson from me on how to deal with women.
P.S., since it’s on topic
Some loser on Reddit a while back couldn’t quite square the circle of my advocating hardcore patriarchy and monogamy while simultaneously talking about crushing girls’ cervixes like ripe fruit. Well, you can’t ruin a whore by fucking her. She’s already spoiled for marriage. Her 50th or 200th cock makes her no dirtier, just like your daily shit not making a half-full cesspit any fouler. Whores have been around forever. We have way, way too many of them now and most of them fuck for free. (Right now we have ninety whores serving ten men, when the natural order is that 10 whores serve 90 men) God has always said no to piping out whores, and you shouldn’t get on God’s bad side, but all things considered, an unmarried young man frequenting a whorehouse is not an unforgivable sin and we’ve historically never seen it that way. So if you’re a religious young man, do what God wants you to do and avoid whores. I have nothing but respect for a man who abides by his vows.
The only moral line I’ll draw for all my readers is not to seduce virgins and then dump them. If you, after despoiling a sweet innocent girl, feel bad in the morning about leaving her, that’s how you know you should wife her up. Get her pregnant and entrap her into marriage. It’s an ironic role reversal, yeah, but we live in Clown World. Honk Honk doll, you’re pregnant and we’re getting married.